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What is the hardest thing for you to keep? 3 years 2 months ago #652

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I have it hard not to comment/laugh/pull a face when someone says something to which I'd have reacted if it was a girl/woman.
What is the right thing for me to do NOW?
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What is the hardest thing for you to keep? 3 years 2 months ago #663

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I don't understand what you are saying. Is it the british getting in between? lol
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What is the hardest thing for you to keep? 3 years 2 months ago #666

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British? Hmmm - maybe. Not sure what kind of English I actually speak, as I'm French :)

Basically, my question was - what is hard for you to keep in terms of Tznius? What are your soft spots? And what do you do about them?

I have a harder time with behaviour (yes, with a "u") towards guys than with actual dressing.
I always want to be natural, and reply to them in the way I replied to all my (female) friends. So everytime there's a male relative coming home, or anything, I find myself very tempted to reply, to laugh, to comment, to disagree... See, I looooooove "being present"...
So yes, this is a big struggle of mine in terms of Tznius.

What about y'all? :)
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What is the hardest thing for you to keep? 3 years 2 months ago #668

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Oh yeah, I know what you mean. For me it's in appearance, excessive makeup and jewelry.
I love jewelry so much! I have more than anyone else I know! lol, I know I'm not supposed to be wear so much at a time, nor things that are flashy but it's hard. I just love it! Bangles, earrings, bracelets, necklaces, rings, watches, everything!
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What is the hardest thing for you to keep? 3 years 2 months ago #694

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yeah i know those stuff, for me it's actually what i wear, as i'm very skinny & tall clothing can look so beautiful on me & it's a struggle not to wear tight cloth or short skirts, it gets really hard with the skirts cuz of my height it's hard to find long skirts that are as cute as the ones they sell in short(unfortunately i can't say i don't wear those cool short ones but i'm trying...)
also my hair is hard i love it long & down, love how it is just flowing i barely wear a pony but i try taking it in a little so i don't have all the hair flowing freely.
what would you guys do about it?
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What is the hardest thing for you to keep? 3 years 2 months ago #695

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Trying is all Hashem wants from you ;)
I struggled with my hair, as many can attest on here. There's an older thread about that. I just try to keep my hair short.....
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