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Is having only older friends okay? 4 years 1 month ago #658

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I'm a yeshiva now and all my friends are older than me..
I can't seem to find anyone in my shuir who I'm friends with, even my chavrusas. They are great learners but when we finish our time that's it till next time. e don't really socialize or anything...

Some boys think I'm weird, but idk, I don't know anyone in yeshiva that has only older friends.
Someimes I pretend to be normal...but then it gets boring.

So I go back to being me.
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Is having only older friends okay? 4 years 1 month ago #659

mybe im oot so thats y im saying this but i think its fine. i mean i have alot of older friends and its ok here. i think u shuld try and find some more friends ur age, but dont drop ur older friends or think ur weird or wtvr. just try and meet more bochurim ur age....its important to have boys ur age but tachlis doesnt rlly make a difference
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Is having only older friends okay? 4 years 1 month ago #675

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I guess that makes sense....
Maybe I'll try to talk to some boys who live nearby over bein hazmanim...
Someimes I pretend to be normal...but then it gets boring.

So I go back to being me.
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Is having only older friends okay? 4 years 3 weeks ago #704

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I actually wanted to just tell you all that I went out with some neighborhood boys my age on a hike. It was really fun, I;m glad I went
Someimes I pretend to be normal...but then it gets boring.

So I go back to being me.
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Is having only older friends okay? 4 years 3 weeks ago #707

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Good 4 you. But you should know having older friends is totally fine anyway.
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